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And I’m back! Hello 2024!

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After a hiatus that felt longer than intended, I’m thrilled to be back in the blogging sphere, ready to weave words and share experiences (and shopping budols and reviews) again with all of you. Life took me on unexpected journeys, but it also reminded me of the joy and fulfillment that comes from expressing thoughts through this digital space. I have been on this platform eversince I can remember!

The pause was necessary, a period of reflection and personal growth. Yet, during this time away, I’ve missed the connections, conversations, and the sheer joy of putting thoughts into words. Now, as I step back into the blogosphere, I want to share the excitement of returning with a promise – a promise to be more consistent, to share more frequently, and to create content that resonates.

Happy 2024 from my family to yours!

Blogging, for me, has always been about creating a dialogue, a space where ideas can flow freely. It’s a platform where experiences are shared, lessons are learned, and connections are forged. The community that surrounds blogging is invaluable, and I am eager to rebuild and strengthen those connections.

Expect a variety of content – from personal anecdotes to thought-provoking discussions (thoughts on freelancing and upskilling coming up!). This blog is not just a space for me to share but a platform for us to engage in meaningful conversations. Your thoughts, opinions, and experiences are not just welcome; they are an integral part of the blogging journey. Drop in the comments section what topics would you like to see from the blog soon!

To those who have patiently waited for my return, thank you. Your support means more than words can express. For those just discovering this blog, welcome – I’m excited to have you on board.

So, here’s to a new chapter, filled with words, stories, and shared experiences. Let’s embark on this journey together, and I promise, this time, the posts will be more frequent, the content more diverse, and the connection stronger.

Stay tuned for what lies ahead, and let’s make this blogging comeback a memorable one!

Some lines a day

I have been writing journals since forever. It started with my “Dear Diary” days when I was a little child and I knew it somehow started my love affair with writing (and collecting cute notebooks and pens hehe). I just love the feeling of nostalgia whenever I read my previous journal entries — how my day went on that day, how I felt or what I dreamed about. How about you? Anyone into writing journals too? ❤️

In Photo:

Some lines a Day Journal – https://bit.ly/3YIJjeri

Diamond studded pens – https://bit.ly/3Rzce1U

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How are you coping up, Mama?

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Life has been overwhelming this past few weeks. So many ideas going through my head. Business is doing well, but I’m having a hard time with my work schedule since the younger one has been clingy lately. When I need a breather, I just browse through a book (enjoying Kindle — best purchase it is!) and it helps me relax for a while. Everyday becomes routinary with motherhood tasks, business engagements, socmed updates and all.

Everyone else wonder why stay-at-home Moms feel sad or empty despite “JUST staying at home to watch over the kids all day”, let me be clear with it. Full time moms are (not always) but oftentimes unappreciated. When you do a great job in a corporate setting, the boss will most likely acknowledge your work. It’s just hugs and kisses here. You have to tell yourself that you are doing a good job. Being a full time Mom with no househelp is very challenging. 24 hours is not enough to do all the work. The emotional baggage makes it harder.

You cannot say you are tired. People think you are always available and you are not busy. It’s not justifiable to buy clothes, bags and makeups. You have to keep the house clean and tidy. You have to empty the laudry bin and iron clothes religiously. You have to cook food. You have all the time in the world to exercise and maintain a healthy lifestyle. I see you smiling Mama, you can relate right?

Let me tell you this. You deserve a break. People will judge you one way or another. Damn if you do, damn if you don’t. Learn to don’t give a f*ck in everything you see or hear. Breathe. Give yourself some time. Read a book. Learn a new skill. Join a mommy community. This will keep you sane. You can do this Momma!

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Mom Guilt, Just Because.

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Being a stay-at-home Mom is really not for the faint hearted. Last Sunday, I was left in the salon because my hair color isn’t finish yet. I was really disappointed with myself for having that “pamper time” which I really doubted that I deserved. It was my first time again after more than 2 years (last salon visit was December 2019 before the pandemic). The kids went home with the hubby and hubby was not able to rest.

I cried because of guilt — of taking my time off from the kids for almost half day.

I cried because I felt sorry for myself — because I cannot enjoy a pamper time without thinking about my children.

I cried because I kept telling myself that I deserved that few hours of ‘me time’ but my mind says otherwise.

I know that every momma with a situation like me can relate. No househelp, with two kids aged below 10, with a business to focus on. Add in how the society view you as one of the privileged ones, often misconstrued as moms lounging in the house all day and ‘only’ taking care of the kids and being financially dependent on their husbands. It’s a lot of hard work and a lot of patience. Honestly, I do not know how I manage to do it but I am surviving everyday.

But don’t get me wrong, I enjoy being around with my kids. I enjoy it when they come with me when I drive around to do errands for the day. I get unli-smiles, unli-cuddles and unli-kisses. I get to see their milestones and be there for them every step of the way. I love how their eyes twinkle when they see my face as they wake up each morning and their drowsy eyes before they fell asleep at night.

Just today, they asked for a Samgyup date. You can never imagine how happy my heart is seeing their smiles when we arrived at the restaurant.

See the twinkle in their eyes?

For me this feelings are valid. As a SAHM, do you experience it too? ♡

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Life lately.

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We finally had time to visit my Mama Sally and Nanay Pining’s grave. It has been 20+ years and I can’t help but still think of what ifs and what might have beens if my Mom is still here with us.

Afterwhich, we spent the whole day with the kids after a busy week of work. We ate, did a little shopping, strolled at the mall and ate some more. It’s such a happy feeling for both Gheoff and I whenever we see our children’s eyes twinkle with happiness.

We always make sure that we spend time with the kids every weekend while they are still young because I know that they will remember and treasure these memories forever.