There are days I stop myself from sharing moments that matter like a work milestone, a short getaway, or even something as simple as a nice meal because I know how quickly it can be misunderstood.
“Wow, ang dami mong pera!”
“Big time ka na, ang yaman mo na!”
But here’s the truth: I’m a full-time mom and a remote worker. I juggle deadlines, house chores, emotional meltdowns (sometimes mine, sometimes my kids’ 😅), and everything in between.
The wins I share aren’t because I have plenty. They’re because I’ve worked hard, sacrificed, saved, and prayed through seasons that didn’t always look or feel this good.
Not everyone gets the same breaks. I know that. And I carry that truth with humility. So if I post something joyful, it’s not to boast. It’s to remind myself that even in the chaos, I’m allowed to celebrate the life I’ve built with love, grit, and grace.
To the moms, workers, and dreamers out there still pushing through, your time will come. And when it does, don’t ever feel guilty for living it. 💛
There are days when I wake up and carry the weight of the world like I always do—managing work, family, home, and everything in between. People often say, “I don’t know how you do it,” or “You’re so strong.” And while I’m grateful they see me that way, I wish they also saw the quiet ache behind the strength.
Because sometimes, I don’t want to be the strong one.
Sometimes, I miss the days when someone checked in on me. When my parents—especially my mom—would ask the simplest questions like “Kumain ka na?” or “Okay ka lang ba?” And somehow, those words could soften even the hardest days.
As I grow older, I feel that longing more deeply. The kind of longing that no amount of success, to-do lists, or achievements can fill. I miss having someone to call just because I’m tired. Not for advice. Not for help. Just for comfort. Just to hear someone say, “You don’t always have to be okay.”
I want to be clear: I am blessed with a loving, thoughtful husband who supports me in every possible way. His presence in my life is a gift I never take for granted. But there’s a kind of care—a kind of comfort—that only a parent, especially a mother, gives. And it’s that irreplaceable presence I find myself yearning for.
But adulthood is strange that way. We grow into roles that require us to be everything for everyone—shock absorber, fixer, nurturer, leader. And while I love being dependable, being that person… it can be so exhausting.
It’s a quiet kind of tired. The kind that doesn’t always show.
The kind you feel at night when the house is finally quiet and you realize no one asked how your day went.
I miss having someone who looked after me, not because I needed something, but just because they cared. I miss being someone’s child. I miss my mom.
So, if you’re reading this and you feel the same… I just want to say: you’re not alone. It’s okay to be strong and still crave softness. It’s okay to lead and still long for someone to check in on you.
And if you still have someone in your life who does that—who listens, who asks, who notices—don’t take it for granted. That kind of love is rare, and it’s everything.
As a mom who juggles both family life and a remote career, I understand the unique challenges and joys that come with balancing work and motherhood from home. That’s why I decided to create a space where fellow work-at-home moms (WAHMs) can connect, share experiences, and support each other.
I’m excited to introduce WAHMSPH – a Facebook community designed specifically for Filipino moms navigating the world of remote work. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting, this group is a place where we can all learn, grow, and thrive together.
Why WAHMSPH?
The idea behind WAHMSPH was born out of the need for a supportive and understanding space for moms who work remotely. We all know that working from home can be a double-edged sword. While it offers flexibility and the ability to be present with our children, it also comes with its own set of challenges, from balancing tasks to setting boundaries with family.
Through this community, I aim to create a hub where moms can:
Share tips and advice on managing work-life balance
Discuss remote work opportunities and resources
Exchange experiences about the highs and lows of working from home
Support each other in both career and personal growth
What Can You Expect from the WAHMSPH Facebook Group?
As a member of this group, you’ll be part of a vibrant, positive, and uplifting community. Here’s what you can look forward to:
Weekly Discussions: We’ll cover topics like time management, productivity hacks, staying motivated, and self-care.
Job Opportunities: We’ll share work-at-home job listings, freelance gigs, and business opportunities specifically for moms.
Parenting and Work-Life Balance: Tips on balancing remote work with taking care of your little ones and keeping your family life thriving.
Support and Encouragement: Because we understand each other’s struggles, this is a safe space to ask for advice, vent, and celebrate victories, big or small!
If you’re a work-at-home mom in the Philippines, or if you’re considering working from home, I invite you to join our WAHMSPH Facebook group. Together, we can create a community where no one has to feel alone in their journey as a mom and professional.
Let’s lift each other up, share what works, and find ways to make our remote careers more rewarding and sustainable.
Balancing work and motherhood from home is no small feat. Between virtual meeting calls, snack requests, and endless distractions, staying productive requires strategy. Here are my top tips for making it work:
Time-Blocking is Your Best Friend. Time-blocking has been a game-changer for me. I set clear work hours and make sure my kids know when I’m in ‘do not disturb’ mode. In our company, a shared calendar helps everyone stay on the same page, so they know when I’m available and when I need focus time.
Working at a nearby cafe while waiting for Reilly
Create a Dedicated Workspace – I have a small little work area near our dining space, and while it’s not a full office, it helps me mentally switch into work mode. Having a defined space—no matter how small—makes a big difference in productivity.
Use Productivity Tools – I rely on Asana for task management, Google Keep and Notes for quick ideas, and Google Calendar to keep track of my schedule. These tools help me stay on top of tasks while keeping things flexible.
“Being a remote working mom isn’t about finding perfect balance—it’s about making it work in the midst of chaos and giving yourself grace along the way.”
Embrace Flexibility – My daily schedule revolves around my kids’ school routines. I bring them to school at 7 AM, fetch Ellie at 9 AM, and pick up Ate Reilly at 2:30 PM. In between, I focus on deep work and squeeze in house chores. After lunch, I stay in a café near school with Ellie as we wait for Ate Reilly to finish. This setup allows me to take meetings and get focused work done while still being present for my kids. Also, work when you’re at your peak productivity (early mornings, nap times, or after bedtime) and give yourself grace on the tougher days.
Our short ride from/to school is spent on chatting about how their day went
Ask for Help – I don’t have house help, so I rely on my husband and kids to help with household chores. I train my kids to do little things like organizing their personal belongings and putting everything back in order after using them. It’s a team effort, and it teaches them responsibility while lightening my load.
At the end of the day, being a remote working mom isn’t about achieving perfect balance—it’s about finding what works for you and embracing the chaos with grace. Some days will feel productive, while others might feel like an uphill battle, and that’s okay. The key is to stay flexible, lean on your support system, and use tools that help you work smarter, not harder. Most importantly, give yourself credit for everything you juggle—because you’re doing an incredible job.
Life has been overwhelming this past few weeks. So many ideas going through my head. Business is doing well, but I’m having a hard time with my work schedule since the younger one has been clingy lately. When I need a breather, I just browse through a book (enjoying Kindle — best purchase it is!) and it helps me relax for a while. Everyday becomes routinary with motherhood tasks, business engagements, socmed updates and all.
Everyone else wonder why stay-at-home Moms feel sad or empty despite “JUST staying at home to watch over the kids all day”, let me be clear with it. Full time moms are (not always) but oftentimes unappreciated. When you do a great job in a corporate setting, the boss will most likely acknowledge your work. It’s just hugs and kisses here. You have to tell yourself that you are doing a good job. Being a full time Mom with no househelp is very challenging. 24 hours is not enough to do all the work. The emotional baggage makes it harder.
You cannot say you are tired. People think you are always available and you are not busy. It’s not justifiable to buy clothes, bags and makeups. You have to keep the house clean and tidy. You have to empty the laudry bin and iron clothes religiously. You have to cook food. You have all the time in the world to exercise and maintain a healthy lifestyle. I see you smiling Mama, you can relate right?
Let me tell you this. You deserve a break. People will judge you one way or another. Damn if you do, damn if you don’t. Learn to don’t give a f*ck in everything you see or hear. Breathe. Give yourself some time. Read a book. Learn a new skill. Join a mommy community. This will keep you sane. You can do this Momma!
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